Wear Your Bikini With Confidence

     That’s right I said it! Wear that bikini like it’s nobody’s business! Show off your boob crack (my term for cleavage), let it ALL hang loose! Show off the abs you worked so hard for and don’t forget to show off that booty! You know *wink wink. That booty you have been working on up until this point! What have you been doing to get those cheeks so round? Squats? Running? Oh, you were born that way? Well, it is only right to show them off! The V-cut bikini bottoms are just appropriate! They show off the right amount cheek at the bottom. I mean, it’s not like you’re naked AND don’t forget you’re at the beach so who cares? It’s not like you are wearing your bra and panties!
     HA! Can someone please explain the difference between bra and panties and a bikini? Despite the fact that one is waterproof they are pretty much the same. Care to disagree? Let me break this down for my sake.

1. They are both designed to cover up your vitals. Vitals=the top cookies, the back cookie and the undercarriage cookie ;-) Both come in colorful bright colors and patterns and you can choose to have it with padding or naw!

2. You feel comfortable wearing one at the beach but when someone accidentally sees you in the other you are quick to get a towel to cover up.

But wait! 

3. One is appropriate for a selfie while the other is not? Why is it that you… I mean, why is it that people can get away with this? Why is there a double standard? #deathTothedoubleStandard

Bikinis are ok for the beach but if I wear my bra and panties to the beach I’m inappropriate and nasty?

     Let’s be real! We wear bikinis because we want to show off our bodies! We want the eyes checking out our bodies! You are confident in your skin and you want to show it off. But why? The two are very similar. You mean to tell me if you ran out of bras you wouldn’t consider putting on your bathing suit top as an option? I know I would. Can we keep it 100? 99.9% of the time when you wear your bikinis or those strappy bathing suits to the beach you are NOT getting into the water. Are you seriously swimming in a bra… I mean bikini?
     At this point you are either rolling your eyes at me, cheering me on or are in deep thought about what you are reading, OR you could care less. I would not be keeping it real if I said I have never worn a bikini or that I don’t own one. (There is probably a picture floating around the web someplace) All I am saying is cover the sexy. You don’t have to wear a sheet to the beach. You can still be sexy with a cover up. Let’s be honest those cover-ups aren’t always solid. You can show it off without showing IT ALL OFF and spilling from the cookies from top and the bottom! What do I mean? There are other options that can be wear at the beach. For example: Shorts, tankini bathing suit top, tank tops, t-shirts, dresses. You get the point. Be classy, not trashy.
     I don’t hate the bra and panty. I need the bra and panty. We ALL need the bra and panty. I hate the double standard! I don’t like to see boobs and booty all over the place. Remember that your body is something special. Not everyone should be allowed to see parts of your cookies. We all know that you’re hot! You are more than just hot, bad and sexy girl! You are a beautiful young lady. A God who calls you HIS PRINCESS created you! You are royalty! You should live a holy life not hoochie lifes. I’m not calling you a hoochie because you wear or have worn a bikini! I just want you all to be mindful of what you’re wearing, how you’re wearing it, as well as your reason for wearing it.

I love you all! :takes off  “The Mom Hat”:

XOXO

*Don’t forget your confidence.

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